1754“I was separated from my husband and had started dating again. I went on a couple of dates with a gentleman and when he dumped me, he said this.

"I thought ‘You want spark?!’ But it has a happy ending, because I’d been writing sexy emails to him, and I kept those emails, I put them on a blog and I started the Erotic Notebook. So thank you for dumping me with those words.”

Taken at the Cybher 2012 conference in central London, UK and her blog, which has adult content, can be found here.