2422“My first girlfriend after university told me this,” says Sam in his audio commentary. “I’d just moved to London. I was 27 years old.

”It was my first time living more than a couple of hours away from my parents. I was nervous, didn’t know to act. We were having some trouble, we were arguing a lot. A lot of it was just learning how to live alone, how to live as a grown-up.

”At one point she took me to one side and told me this, that we get to decide what the rules are. It made a lot of sense.”

Taken in Hong Kong during the SOTM World Tour.