2218“I had a former boyfriend who didn’t want to have kids, and I did. Then I got pregnant, I found out in the toilet. I had the test and I took it over to him, and this is what he said. It means ‘Blimey’ or ‘Godammit’ in English. Then he started to Google childcare immediately on his computer.

“But then we got a son and he was a very good father. He’s now my ex and I have another child from another man, and actually we’re quite doing well together, but still, him saying this to me at that point really got to me.”

Taken in Rotterdam, Holland, during the Travel Bloggers Unite conference.